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Thursday Thirteen, edition #2

Posted by Trisha on May 1st, 2008

I think this is only the second time I’ve participated in the Thursday 13. I could be wrong, though. I will be trying to do this more in the future. This weeks theme is “alphabet” so, in keeping with a Mother’s Day theme, I chose the letter “m” for mother. Here are 13 reasons I love being a mom:

Thirteen reason I love being a mom

1. I get to play with toys! Maybe more than that, I get to experiment with “boy” toys, like Transformers, Rescue Heroes, etc. I was such a girly girl when it came to toys, for the most part. I played with Barbies (although my sister and I were known for marrying our Barbies with G.I. Joe’s. Ken was wimpy in our book…Barbie was much more likely to fall for Joe than Ken.).

2. I love hearing my boys say “I love you, mom.” It doesn’t matter if it’s before they go to bed, when they wake up, of just for packing their lunch, it never gets old.

3. I love watching them grow into young men. I guess this is more relevant now that the twins turned 7 on Monday, but it really is amazing to watch their transformation from boys to young men. There really is nothing quite like it. My dad tells me it’s like Trace Adkins; new song “You’re gonna miss this.” Yeah, I’m there already.

4. I love it when people tell me how caring and well behaved the boys are. It just makes my heart warm to think that I must be doing something right, after all, ya know?

5. I love to watch them sleep. So peaceful, innocent and serene. I could also throw in that I love watching them sleep because I get a little peace and quiet, but I also love to watch the insanely uncomfortable positions that they sleep in. Someday I’m going to start taking pics of the weird ways in which they sleep. I suppose that could be a Thursday Thirteen in and of itself sometime.

6. I have an excuse to watch cartoons! Yes, I admit that I love watching cartoons. And with digital cable, i get to watch all the “old” cartoon that I grew up on, thanks to Boomerang. Shows like the Smurfs, the Snorks, Top Cat, etc.

7. Motherhood is the most fulling job I’ve ever had, hands down.

8. I love teaching them new things. It’s in my nature…I love to teach. And I’m glad I get to teach them so much.

9. I love hearing them laugh. They have the most jovial, genuine laughter of anyone I’ve ever met. It is never just a chuckle with them, either. It’s always a big, hearty belly laugh that envelopes their whole being. It’s so infectious and I love it.

10. I love listening to these three little boys try to have such grown-up conversations. It’s like the books and shows “Kids say the darndest things.” I wonder sometimes where they come up with their topics of choice. Brian and I sit sometimes and just listen to them talk and try to stifle laughter (stifle so they don’t know we’re listening and stop talking).

11. I love to watch them play with daddy.

12. I love being able to kiss it and make it all better. Boo boos, that is. It seems a mom’s kiss can be a cure all (except, of course, in the case of Ryan, who, if you remember, ran smack into a tree a couple of weeks ago. My kiss couldn’t cure that, though I tried!).

13. I love being constantly surprised by how smart my kids are. I know every parent thinks their kids are smart, so I’m no exception. But I really am amazed at how spongy they are and how much they absorb from every day conversations, etc. I suppose having their fathers memory helps that, too. They are like elephants… you know, they never forget (dh included).

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The purpose of the meme is to get to know everyone who participates a little bit better every Thursday. Visiting fellow Thirteeners is encouraged! If you participate, leave the link to your Thirteen in others comments. It’s easy, and fun! Trackbacks, pings, comment links accepted!


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I love my position

Posted by Trisha on February 22nd, 2008

I have a group of girlfriends whome I’ve known since middle school. There are 4 of us and one of them I’ve known since kindergarten. We all went to high school together. We all went to college together. We all got married within a year of each other (3 of us within months of each other). I was the first of the group to get married and also to have kids. One doesn’t currently have any kids, one has a beautiful baby girl who’s roughly 6 months old and the other has a 15 month old and a 3 year old. Though we’ve kept in touch sparingly via e-mail since college, we’ve recently connected on Facebook. It has been such a blast “seeing” them again! I haven’t seen most of them since the last wedding, nearly 4 1/2 years ago. And I’m so glad I didn’t have to wait until our 10 year reunion this summer (God willing) to “see” them again. They haven’t changed, of course. They never did.

But what I love is that they are asking me for advice. I’ve never been the “seasoned pro” at anything! I’m typically the youngest in the parenting groups that I have been involved with (locally, anyway), even though we all have kids the same age. That’s how it was in our old church, too. I was by far the youngest mother with kids these ages (5 and nearly 7). I’ve always looked to others for the advice that I’m now able to pass along to my friends. I must say, there’s something completely satisfying in being able to pass along tips and tricks to other moms, but especially my friends. And I don’t mean satisfying in a bloated, egotistical kind of way. I mean complete satisfaction that my years (even if only 7) of laboring through trials and tears and hair-pulling-out can help one of my friends get through it a little easier, the same way it worked from those whom I sought advice from.

I can honestly say that I am looking forward to sharing parenting war stories with them when we meet this summer. And, maybe passing on some more wisdom, lol. Yeah, right. Wisdom. Well, tips and tricks, anyway. It’s kind of fun to be the giver rather than the receiver, of advice :)

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