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Not what I expected to hear

Posted by Trisha on December 2nd, 2009

This time of year things get so busy half the time I never hear a single word being said to me. It isn’t because I’m intentionally ignoring anyone. It’s just because I have so much going on and my mind is racing so much there too much in my brain to comprehend the information being given to me. That being said, I heard loud and clear what was said to me yesterday, and it was not at all what I expected I’d hear.

We have been moving for the last week. Not far. In fact, right across the parking lot. We had been living in a 2 bedroom townhouse and have moved into a 3 bedroom. Mostly, through last week, we moved smaller stuff over; boxes, clothes, tv’s, etc. This last weekend, we moved the big stuff. After that move, I’d been having some pain and numbness in my right shoulder/arm. I thought for sure I’d pinched a nerve. So, I made an appointment to see a chiropractor yesterday morning. As it turns out, a pinched nerve is not what I have. He’s 99% sure I have Carpal Tunnel.

Talk about a shock to the system. I had no idea that was coming. My mom was Dx with that and actually had surgery in Dec of 2002 (though I didn’t know she had the surgery). She wasn’t at all surprised to hear that that’s what is wrong with me. At least it’s manageable. It’s likely I caught it early enough so as not to have to have the surgery, but I guess only time will tell for that.

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A day in the life

Posted by Trisha on October 27th, 2009

My children’s lit class is probably the most unexpectedly fun class I’ve had. When I first got the syllabus I thought for sure I’d drown in all the readings, even if they weren’t specifically hard (and they aren’t hard books).

My final project is a diversity project, where we are to chose children’s books to read that have something to do with diversity. This can be race, gender, disability, identity, family, culture, etc. Originally I had thought of doing something with ASD (Asperger’s Syndrome…a high functioning form of Autism that one of the twins has). But something struck me as I was going through book lists…perhaps I should simply do something on twins themselves. They often struggle with identity…at least it’s something I see in mine, being identical twins. I was very surprised by how many children’s books I found on the subject. I am looking very forward to seeing how this comes together.

The final for this class requires a creaticve project for this diversity project. Something like a story, or lesson plan or quilt. My first thought was to do a scrapbook. But I’d LOVE to do a “Day in the life” movie. I don’t know if that’s even possible, but I’m exploring the possibilities of that. I just think it would be a neat idea to follow the twins around for a day and then have them narrate the movie. Has anyone ever done something like this before? Any pointers?

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Testing all the limits

Posted by Trisha on July 21st, 2009

My 6 yo is insisting on testing all the limits known to mankind. He’s generally a good kid, don’t get me wrong, but, boy, that kid has cajones! We never really had a problem until he turned 6. Once 6, he thought that none of our rules applied to him. I have no idea what gave him that impression. When I’m giving them “the rules” he’s always the one that says “Me, too, mommy?” And I have to remind him that Yes, the rules apply to him, too. Yet when he’s playing or on his own (and not occupied playing with his brothers or me), he forgets that there are any rules that exist at all!

Take, for instance, his insistence on crossing the street without letting us know. Yes, he’s 6, and yes, we live in a townhouse development way back from the main street. However, there are still plenty of people that tear through the parking lot like bats out of hell, despite the fact that are a zillion kids around. So, if he’s going to cross the street, I want to watch to make sure he’s safe (especially since they have a failure when it comes to looking before they run out into the street). We’ve had this problem with him before, where he told me he was going one place, and ended up crossing the street to go to another. Today was one of those days.

We have given him every punishment imaginable and nothing phases him (which is another problem all its own). I don’t know what to do with him anymore. I’m really and truly at a loss. I’m hoping it’s just a rebellious phase and that this, too, shall pass. Unfortunately, not having experienced this with the twins, I dunno. I’m sure we’re not the only ones to experience this, even though it sure seems like it. All I can say for him is that he’s lucky I’d already had my coffee and that they are leaving for 3 weeks on Saturday. Otherwise, his punishment would be much, much worse. mIf he keeps this up, he’ll be lucky to make it to 7…

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Sometimes, it’s a slap in the face

Posted by Trisha on July 10th, 2009

Have you ever had that ssv (still, small voice), taping away on your shoulder? I think we all have at some point. This week, my ssv decided it was tired of being still and small and it smacked me upside the head!

After starting back to school last fall to finish my teaching degree, I thought I had 3 more years left to get my BA Ed. While talking to my advisor this week, she suggested I concentrate on my Poli Sci degree (that’s my major) since I’m not yet into the education program at Brockport. I had planned to apply this fall for the spring, but I decided to think about what she’d said. DH was adamant that “a degree is a degree” but there isn’t anything I can do with a Poli Sci degree by itself. So, while pondering all this at work Wed. night, and not being at all happy about it, something suddenly hit me. And it wasn’t one of those small realizations, either. It was a smack in the face: I can graduate with my BA in Poli Sci in May, enter grad school in the fall, and graduate with my MA Ed in the time that I had been planning on getting my BA!

I have no idea why I didn’t see this before. Honestly, the thought had never occurred to me before. I guess I never thought about it because it wasn’t the goal I was striving for. I never wanted a Political Science degree. I’ve only ever wanted to teach. But really, this makes the most sense. I was going to have to go right into grad school once I graduated, anyway. I might as well start it earlier and get it over with sooner. It’s a smart financial decision and a smart time decision for us.

Never in my wildest dreams did I think my graduation date was so close. This is a HUGE accomplishment for me! My parents are excited, too. I’ll be the first college graduate in our family, even if it did take me 12 years! And I’m excited that the boys will be able to see it all take place. That’s important to me, too. So, barring no unforeseen problems, it looks like I’ll be a college graduate as of May 15th 2010!

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NaBloPoMo

Posted by Trisha on May 1st, 2009

I’ve decided to dive in and take part in this month’s nablopomo theme. I’ve neglected my blog for far too long and it’s high time I start giving it some love. May’s theme is sweet. I can’t say I’ll be posting on the theme every day, but I’ll try. Today, though, I guess I’ll just give a big, huge update. We’ve been super busy this last month and May isn’t looking any less busy. We had my sister-in-law’s wedding the first weekend in April, which was fun, but exhausting all the same. I’ll post pics at a later date, once I get them all re-sized and blog friendly :) I stayed in Indiana for the following week to finally meet my niece for the first time. She’s SUCH a cutie! So sweet and chubby! I’ll post pics of her, too! Then we had Easter and our wedding anniversary. Then my father-in-law was in town, and then we had Ryan and Zach’s birthday this past Tuesday. April was a fully-loaded month for us and I’m glad the spinning has finally stopped!

This weekend, I think we might be going to the circus. I remember going as a kid and loved it. I would love to take the boys. I think every kid should experience the circus just once in their life. Then on Sunday, the twins and I are walking in March for Babies. I’m only abt halfway to my goal (which I ended up lowering). You can sponsor us, if you’d like. You can also read our story there.

After that, next weekend we’re taking the boys to Day Out With Thomas. That was our birthday gift to the twins. I can’t wait to see the look on their faces, either! I’ll definitely be posting pics of that for all to see! We took them to Red Robin Tuesday night for dinner. and I’ll get those pics up, too. I’m going to work on resizing them tonight/tomorrow. I promise to get them up by Monday.

A great accomplishment happened this week in our house…Brian received his NWA seal of approval! We’re celebrating tonight with yummy dessert and a movie (or back-logged dvr’d svu’s, lol).

We’ve also joined a photo challenge over at PhotoChallenge.org. They have a daily challenge and a monthly challenge. Until now, I’ve only been doing the daily challenge. But I think I’m going to start the monthly challenge this month. It gives me a way to hone my photography skills, anyway ;)

For now, I’m heading out side to enjoy the beautiful weather. I hope you do the same!

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Out with the old

Posted by Trisha on March 3rd, 2009

Brian and I have been mattress shopping for awhile. As a person who loathes shopping, I can tell you I was not looking forward to this tedious task. I found, however, that I rather enjoyed it. After all, laying down to shop? I can handle that! Anyway, we’ve done a lot of research online, been to a few stores before we were too serious about the whole thing. We’ve thrown the idea around for several months, but just hadn’t had the extra money. Hello tax season!

Now that we’ve dealt with Uncle Sam for the year, we decided it was time. Not just because we had the extra money, but because we needed it. We knew our mattress was old. It was old when it was given to us my my mil 8 yrs ago. We couldn’t find a tag to tell us exactly how old it was, but we are guessing it’s probably upwards of 30 years old. Yes, 30 years. That’s 3 times it’s normal lifespan. In other words, it was DOA. But, when you’re young and first starting out, you take what you can get. It didn’t seem so bad back then. And since it was free, that made it even better.

Fast forward 8 years. Neither of us were sleeping well. In fact, I can’t say that either of us were really even sleeping. It was probably more restless napping than anything. And what little sleep we were getting was as far from quality as you can possibly get. I was waking up every morning in pain. DH (and likely myself) was snoring every night. We tossed and turned trying to get comfortable. It was just awful. I was seriously on the verge of sleeping on the couch…or the air mattress. Either would have been more comfortable that our bed.

So, out of our research, the first thing we looked at (in-store) was a sleep number. And we almost pulled the trigger on one. It was very, very nice. But we decided that if we were going to spend that much money on a sleep number, it should probably be on one better than their entry-level mattress and we couldn’t afford anything other than that. So, as much as we liked it, we decided that’s probably in our future, but not in our present. We then spent the rest of the week researching and shopping, etc. Friday, when we were both off work, we did some heavy-duty shopping. One of the local stores was having a sale and we went to check it out. They put us through a “comfort test” where they had use lie on mattress to determine which firmness we liked best. Brian and I disagree slightly. He likes a really firm mattress and I like a firm, yet soft, mattress. I imagine this is due to the fact that I have more curves and therefore find a slightly softer mattress fits those curves better.

We tried several mattresses, layed on probably a dozen or so. And many of them we layed on several times. We finally got it narrowed down to 2 mattresses, both Sealy’s. One of them was a traditional inner spring mattress with a layer (or two) of memory foam around the hip area of the bed. It was comfortable for both of us, it seemed. The other was a memory foam mattress. We’d heard a great deal about them, but had never layed on one before. It was so nice! I had woken up that morning in pain, as usual. This time in my shoulder. However, when I layed on the memory foam mattress, I felt no pain at all. The others had muffled the pain, but it was still there, even if only very dull. Since I’m a side sleeper, the fact that I felt no pain at all on the memory foam bed was a huge light bulb for me. It also piqued Brian’s interest knowing that I felt no pain. My choice between the two mattresses was the memory foam. I loved it. The salesman said women tend to like them more than men because they have more curves and the memory foam fits those curves better.

We left the store and headed home to get the boys off the bus. We did some more research and headed out to one other store. We tried their memory foam and although we liked it, I found it not quite as firm as the Sealy. Not that that really mattered. It was all about price. We left there leaning toward their mattress because it was going to be cheaper. We headed back to the previous store, trying to decide where to go and what to do. It didn’t take us long to decide. They were going to be cheaper, even if only by $20. Seems silly, I know, but when you factor in tax, we were saving more than just $20. It’s more like $120 and that’s a big difference to us. We even bought a couple of memory foam pillows to go with it.

It was delivered on Saturday and our old mattress was carted off to wherever old mattresses go to die. Ours was already dead, but I can take comfort in knowing it won’t be alone in it’s mattress graveyard, lol. And after 3 nights of sleeping on it, I can say that I am so very happy with it. Brian is not snoring anymore. Neither of us are tossing and turning. I’m not waking up in pain. And we can both tell that the quality of sleep we are getting is leaps and bounds above anything we’ve had in years. I woke up today feeling the best I have in years, literally. I woke up today expecting to feel tired, and half-convinced myself I was. But honestly, I’m not. I can’t even pretend that I am. I can’t remember the last time I slept the way I am sleeping on this mattress, and we’ve only had it 3 nights!

Here are pics of our old mattress and our new one. Trust me…the pics of our old one don’t do it justice!

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I tried to capture the “divots” in the bed; the impressions that were permanently put in place over the years. The pooch in the middle (if you can see it) is where, well, where we obviously didn’t sleep, lol.

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We don’t know exactly how old our mattress is, but the look of the tag gave us an idea…

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The new one coming off the truck. I was at work, so this is all dh got.

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And the new mattress. Brian had it all made up when I got home, so again, this is what you get :) It has a protective covering over it, and I didn’t take it off, but this is what it looks like sand sheets.

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And here it is all made up. Didn’t dh do a great job making the bed?

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I’d say for our first ginormous furniture purchase, it went very well and we are happy with it.

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It’s the most wonderful time of the year

Posted by Trisha on October 27th, 2008

Halloween marks the start of our busy season around here. After Halloween, we prepare for Thanksgiving and Brian’s birthday. Fortunately, this year they aren’t the same day! 15 days later is Alex’s birthday. His Godfather will be in town that weekend to celebrate his birthday and Christmas with the boys, which means that sometime before then we need to put our tree up. We’re looking into buying a new tree. Ours is 6 years old this year and when I put it together last year, a couple of the branches fell off. I took that as a sign that it’s time for a new one. So, we’re pricing.

Speaking of pricing Christmas trees, we went to WalMart on Saturday after taking the boys to see High School Musical 3 (good movie!). We parked and walked in through the garden center and what were we greeted with? Christmas decorations! I was not prepared for that AT ALL! It isn’t even Halloween yet, for crying out loud! I am the person who is adamant about not putting up any Christmas decorations until after Thanksgiving. I just can’t be in the mood before then, even if there is snow on the ground. I have to take the holidays one at a time. It’s just the way I’m wired, I guess. Besides, it’s more fun to make a mad dash for the finish line than to start 2 months early.

Anyway, 15 days after Alex’s birthday is Christmas. Then we’re leaving to head to Erie for Jen and Matt’s wedding on New Years Eve. We’ve decided from there to go back to Indiana for a couple of days so that I can see my niece for the first time. I am super excited about that! She’ll be 3 months old then, but at least I don’t have to wait until April! Then it’s my birthday, which I am NOT looking forward to this year, and my sil’s birthday. Fortunately, after that, we have nothing until April when we have sil’s wedding, our anniversary and the twins’ birthday.

In all fairness, this is my favorite time of year. I love fall (though we haven’t had much of a fall this year) and Thanksgiving and Christmas. It’s such a joyous time of year. I love cooking a big dinner and celebrating with family and friends. I don’t even mind that it’s just the 5 of us. It’s a compete contrast to the frenzied Thanksgiving and Christmas days I had as a kid, hoping from one grandparent to the next, eating dinner at one and dessert at the other. It’s nice to just be able to relax and take it all in.

And speaking of relaxing, I think I’m going to do that for what’s left of the Colts game. After doing 2 blog posts for my class blog, dishes, and 3 or 4 loads of laundry, I think I’ll chill for the rest of the game and then head to bed. Night!

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Been a long while

Posted by Trisha on October 20th, 2008

Once again, it’s been far too long since I have blogged. I find it much harder to even be in the mood to blog now-a-days. It isn’t that I don’t want to, I’m just not motivated enough to think of something to blog about, lol. Not to mention that for the last two weeks, I’ve been studying for midterms. I did very well on my midterms. I have two A’s, a B and a C.

Life has been crazy around here lately. I’ve found balancing it all a very hard thing to do. I think I’ve just finally figured out how. At least most day. School is getting a bit easier and work, well, it’s work. I love working in a cafe. Reminds me of college (the first time around, lol). The extra income is very helpful, too. We’ve managed to pay off quite a bit of debt and should be pretty well set for Christmas and the start of the new year. I’m looking forward to having two and a half months off, too :D

We’re getting into the busy part of the year. Halloween then Thanksgiving, two birthdays, Christmas, Matt & Jennifer’s wedding, then my birthday (see my previous post for my thoughts on that) then it’s back to school and everything the spring semester brings.

We bought Halloween costumes for the boys over the weekend. Zach wanted to be Indiana Jones, but since we found no Indy costumes (which surprised me), he settled for Anakin Skywalker. Ryan decided on a skeleton. Alex wanted to be Frankenstein’s monster, but we couldn’t find anything at Target so he originally settled on being Tony Stewart. However, when we went to WalMart, they had a Frankenstein costume, so that’s what he’s going to be. It will be the first year without at least one homemade costume. But, I suppose that’s ok. Maybe next year :)

I have a few new pics to share, too. Here goes :)

First day of school for the twins:

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First day of kindy for Alex:

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Alex’s first bus ride:

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My beautiful new niece, who is a month old now!

Alex’s first lost tooth:

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Other random kidness:

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Ryan playing checkers with his friend:

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Ryan’s monarch butterfly painting at school:

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So, if I don’t blog for the rest of the week (or month!), have a great week (or rest of October!).

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100 days to Christmas

Posted by Trisha on September 20th, 2008

Yes, I know that there are now 96 days to Christmas, and not 100, as the title suggests. What I’m actually talking about is a website called One Hundred days to Christmas. It’s another List Mama blog, but I like it because it’s Christmas related. I always find that it sneaks up on me. One day, all is normal and then BAM! I’m running around like a chicken with my head cut off (though, really, who thought of that phrase? Can a chicken run around when its head is cut off??) trying to get everything done at the last minute. I am afraid that will hit me double this year with work and school and everything else going on. Not to mention that in the midst of all of that, I have to pack and plan for our trip to Erie for Matt & Jen’s (Jenson) wedding. I’ll hop on board anything that helps me keep on track and keep organized. I’m an un-organized person by nature and it’s very frustrating to not be able to find things when I need them. But, what can I do? It’s in my blood…

Anyway, I encourage you to check out One Hundred Days to Christmas, especially if you are an un-organized person like me :) It might help take some of the stress out of the holidays for you as I’m hoping it will do for me :)

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The countdown begins

Posted by Trisha on August 1st, 2008

As of today, it is T-24 days until my first day of classes. I am both incredibly excited and incredibly nervous. I don’t think I’ve been this nervous before. Or at least not in a long time. And I can’t really say it’s a bad kind of nervous. More of an excited nervous. Does that make sense? Either way, there are butterflies in my stomach something awful! I don’t think I was this nervous on my first day of college 10 years ago!!

All-in-all, though, my classes aren’t incredibly hard. Well, ok, they may be, but I’m only taking 12 hrs since I have to work around Alex’s afternoon kindergarten schedule. They are all political science classes, so they could get a bit heavy. I’m hoping I can mix it up a bit next semester. Once I see my advisor, I can schedule my classes online and I don’t have to wait forever to get an apt. like I used to have to do. Thank you, internet!

The hardest part, so far, is trying to find a job. I’m hoping to find one on campus so that I can save on gas. There are a few listed on the job board. I just need to find out if they are still available. It’s going to be a crazy semester for me, I know. However, the craziness that our family will have to deal with for the next three years will be worth it in the end. Once I have my degree and we’ve got a dual income, we can finally buy the house we’ve been longing for and start saving for college for the boys and retirement for us.

I hope everyone has a great weekend. Oh, and happy birthday, mom!

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