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Archive for August, 2006

Driving in this city SUCKS!

Posted by Trisha on August 30th, 2006

I was once again reminded today of why I HATE driving downtown! 2 reasons:

  1. The pedestrians in this city have no idea what the rules of the road are. I mean, did someone not teach them, or do they just not care? Where in the traffic rules/laws does it say to cross in the crosswalk againt the light? Is it my imagination, or aren’t we supposed to cross when the light facing us is green? You know, the little man in the crosswalk light….he means go. The hand means stop. And then, to top it all off, the people who aren’t crossing the road at the proper time look at you like you are the worst person in the world because you are in the crosswalk trying to cross the street, legally, becuase the light facing you is green! I realize peds have the right of way, but, imo, that should only be IF they are crossing the street legally! (No, I won’t go running down peds b/c they are crossing illegally. I’m not that deranged. Just have some respect for the rules of the road instead of making up your own rules!)
  2. Who in the heck timed these lights, anyway? No wonder it drives my fil crazy to drive in this town! (He’s a Civil Engineer, btw). It drives me batty, too. I hit every stinking red light there is on State and on 10th today. C’mon….how about a little staggering, please? It took me 15 minutes to get home when it should have taken me 7! Geeze!

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I could get used to this!

Posted by Trisha on August 29th, 2006

I just can not get over how quiet it is in the house while the boys are in school. There is no fighting over toys, yelling, running around, wrestling, etc. The house stays clean, at least until the twins get home. I get more done during the day than I have in the 3 1/2 yrs that I’ve been a SAHM. I could get used to this!

And Alex, he is a totally different kid when he’s by himself. I do think he’s lonely, though. Not long after we drop his bubbies off at school, he’s asking if it’s time to pick them up. So sweet. He isn’t used to them being gone all day every day and he has no one but me to play with. I’ve been too busy cleaning to play too much with him. Perhaps tomorrow I’ll play a game of Dominoes with him. He only loves it for the trains, but it’s a good game for him to play. He has fun.

Once he starts preschool, he’ll be better. And once we get our schedules all worked out, my SAHM group will have more play dates, so that will keep him busy in between.

So far, my favorite part has been waking up and having an hour to myself in the morning to take a shower uninterrupted, and sit and enjoy a cup of coffee while watching the news. Well, that, and having a clean house!

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First day of school!

Posted by Trisha on August 28th, 2006

I sent my babies off to their first day of school today. It was hard, but not as hard as I thought it would be. They acted like it was old hat…like they’d done it before. That made it easier, I think. But, I didn’t expect anything less of them. They’ve never been the clingy type…they let go pretty easily. Alex had the hardest time, though. He wanted to stay and go to school, too. I told him he had to wait a few weeks, then he would start school, too. Here are some pics I took of them.  

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Taking a page out of dh’s book

Posted by Trisha on August 27th, 2006

DH has a new blog (yes, another one) that he has decided to use as a work-out/exercise blog. So, like him, although not in a new blog, I will be joining in on the exercise thing. I was really good for 6 months, and then took a hiatus over the summer after all of my exercising (5 times a week for 30 minuteseach day) appeared not to be making a difference. Starting tomorrow, hopefully (depending on when the owner of our Realty company that we rent from comes to look at our leak), I’ll be starting back up. Hopefully, by doing this, we can keep each other accountable, as well as getting encouragement from others.

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Join me as I solve hunger

Posted by Trisha on August 27th, 2006

Hunger is an issue that has become very important to me and I have decided to get involved!  I am walking in the CROP WALK and I need your help. 

Please consider making a donation to my efforts. Your donation supports programs that work to solve this world-wide challenge.

You can help me by making a donation online.  Click on the link below and you will be taken to my personal donation page where you can make a secure online credit card donation. You can click here to access my webpage.

My goal is to raise $100. This will provide field and garden seed for 6 families ( Our goal as a church is to raise at least $1600. The cost of a building kit is $1600 and contains things to help an Afghan family rebuild their home in the wake of war).

If you can help me raise money to help end hunger, please consider donating on my website.

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Back-to-school shopping complete!

Posted by Trisha on August 25th, 2006

We bought the boys their back packs tonight, so they are all set for school Monday. We even bought Alex one. He put a little one on and looked so stinking cute in it, we couldn’t resist! He won’t need one for preschool, but we’ll find a way for him to use it. Ryan, however, is not to keen on having to wear a uniform. I reassured him that once a month he could wear whatever he wants, but the rest of the time, he has to wear what I tell him to. I must say that I really like the idea of uniforms, or a dress code. There is no pressure for the kids to have the latest-and-greatest in fashion, ultimately saving their parents money. Jet did a story last week, I think it was, on back-to-school shopping and how much parents spend. Some of those parents spent $400 per child! My jaw dropped! In our case, that would be $1200! I want to know what in the world they are buying their kids to wear to school! My entire wardrobe didn’t cost me $400! I suppose this is one of the upsides to having boys. We have the clothes to buy, though they are much simpler than girls’ clothes. And, no makeup, hair stuff, etc.

We met their teacher last night. She seems so sweet! I was actually surprised that they ended up in the same class. When I registered them, they told me that they usually separate them. I told them we wanted them together, but decided not to push the issue. All along, part of me really wanted them together, but I was getting used to the idea of them being apart. Anyway, it will make it easier for me to participate in field trips, volunteer in their class, etc. 23 kids in their class! WOW! Last year she had 28, so I guess this is the lesser of 2 evils, lol. The classroom was so bright and cheerful with several windows. They already know where their cubbys are. I think the boys will really like school. Ryan has been chomping at the bit since last night to go. He just can’t wait until Monday. Sweet thing.

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A pregnant man?

Posted by Trisha on August 25th, 2006

This is utterly fascinating to me as a mom of twins. I have never heard of this before, but it honestly sounds oddly interesting, yet grotesque!

A Pregnant Man?

Another Person Lived Inside a Man for Nearly Four Decades

Aug. 23, 2006 — Sanju Bhagat’s stomach was once so swollen he looked nine months pregnant and could barely breathe.

Living in the city of Nagpur, India, Bhagat said he’d felt self-conscious his whole life about his big belly. But one night in June 1999, his problem erupted into something much larger than cosmetic worry.

An ambulance rushed the 36-year-old farmer to the hospital. Doctors thought he might have a giant tumor, so they decided to operate and remove the source of the bulge in his belly.

“Basically, the tumor was so big that it was pressing on his diaphragm and that’s why he was very breathless,” said Dr. Ajay Mehta of Tata Memorial Hospital in Mumbai. “Because of the sheer size of the tumor, it makes it difficult [to operate]. We anticipated a lot of problems.”

Mehta said that he can usually spot a tumor just after he begins an operation. But while operating on Bhagat, Mehta saw something he had never encountered. As he cut deeper into Bhagat’s stomach, gallons of fluid spilled out — and then something extraordinary happened.

“To my surprise and horror, I could shake hands with somebody inside,” he said. “It was a bit shocking for me.”

Removing the Mutated Body

One doctor recalled that day in the operating room.

“He just put his hand inside and he said there are a lot of bones inside,” she said. “First, one limb came out, then another limb came out. Then some part of genitalia, then some part of hair, some limbs, jaws, limbs, hair.”

Inside Bhagat’s stomach was a strange, half-formed creature that had feet and hands that were very developed. Its fingernails were quite long.

“We were horrified. We were confused and amazed,” Mehta said.

A Mutated Body Within a Body

At first glance, it may look as if Bhagat had given birth. Actually, Mehta had removed the mutated body of Bhagat’s twin brother from his stomach. Bhagat, they discovered, had one of the world’s most bizarre medical conditions — fetus in fetu. It is an extremely rare abnormality that occurs when a fetus gets trapped inside its twin. The trapped fetus can survive as a parasite even past birth by forming an umbilical cordlike structure that leaches its twin’s blood supply until it grows so large that it starts to harm the host, at which point doctors usually intervene.

According to Mehta, there are fewer than 90 cases of fetus in fetu recorded in medical literature.

Fetus in fetu happens very early in a twin pregnancy, when one fetus wraps around and envelops the other. The dominant fetus grows, while the fetus that would have been its twin lives on throughout the pregnancy, feeding off its host twin like a kind of parasite. Usually, both twins die before birth from the strain of sharing a placenta.

Sometimes, however, as in Bhagat’s case, the host twin survives and is delivered. What makes his case so unusual is that no one suspected Bhagat had a twin inside him for 36 years.

Bhagat said he was very much relieved after his operation. He was not interested in knowing what Mehta did to him or seeing what he had removed from his abdomen.

“He didn’t want to see it because it was looking very ghastly,” Mehta said.

Avoiding the Gory Details

There was no placenta inside Bhagat — the enveloped parasitic twin had connected directly to Bhagat’s blood supply. Right after the surgery, Bhagat’s pain and inability to breathe disappeared and he recovered immediately.

The case may have been a medical miracle to doctors, but to Bhagat his condition had been a source of shame and misery. All his life, people in the village where he lived had mercilessly teased him and told him he looked pregnant. Ironically, they were right in a way.

Today Bhagat is in good health and leads a normal life, but he still gets teased occasionally.

“They still ridicule him. What they say is, you went for an operation and you had the baby,” Mehta said.

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I have been interesting blog fodder

Posted by Trisha on August 25th, 2006

It appears I have been interesting blog fodder for some of the bloggers on Erie Blogs. Neither of them referred to me by name, but it’s blatantly obvious that it’s me they are talking about. That’s one of my pet peeves…people who have no problem slamming you behind your back but don’t have the guts to say anything to your face. But, these are the type of people who hate anyone who doesn’t agree with them, so I’m not too worried about it. If the best they can do is call me names, then personally, I’d rather they didn’t comment on my blog at all. You know the old adage, “If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all.” I guess they weren’t taught that one…

I thought that I would clarify my position on Plan B, however.

First, let me say that Plan B is better than the alternative. There is only 1 exception to an abortion that I can morally agree with (rape), and Plan B is a great thing for these victims. Perhaps more sexual assaults will be reported, now. Of all the things these women have to go through, Plan B would alleviate the added stress of possibly getting pregnant. No victim needs that to deal with.

That being said, one thing proponents of Plan B fail to talk about is that this pill only reduces your chances of getting pregnant. It does not stop you from getting an STD or HIV. So, even though this gives teens and others an option other than abortion, by choosing this option over a condom, they are still putting themselves at risk.

People have had a problem with my “18 and over” VS. teens in my previous post. Well, first of all…18 is still a teenager. And, when my kids turn 18, they are still just that…my kids. Besides, turning 18 does not automatically make one responsible. Not to mention that, hmmmm, let’s see…… when I was 15 or 16, how many friends did I have who were 18? Oh, LOTS! No one has taken into account that kids younger than 18 can simply ask someone who is to buy it for them.

And how are we teaching our kids to be responsible for their actions when we are, in effect, saying to them sure, go ahead, have sex with whom ever and don’t worry about what will happen because you can jut take this pill and make it all go away. Our job as parents and as elders is to teach them to be responsible adults. I don’t think we’re doing a good job of that in this situation. We aren’t teaching them that there are consequences to their actions and to take responsibility for those actions/consequences.

Something else that irks me about this is that, aside from promoting promiscuity, what about the thousands of people waiting to adopt children? We have friends who have tried for the better part of about 5 yrs to get pregnant. They have had 5 failed IVF attempts, surgery, and more emotional and physical pain than I could ever fathom. After taking a year off from all of that, they have decided to adopt. And there are many more out there waiting to do the same. Why isn’t anyone telling these young girls that that is an option, too?

Oh, and one more thing…the idea that Plan B is great for those that don’t want children is ludicrous. Birth control should come before sex, not after. And, there are plenty of ways to ensure you don’t have children; hysterectomy, vasectomy, or use a condom, diaphragm, or the pill. Technically, DH and I fall into this category. We have 3 and are happy and don’t want anymore. But we take precautions before sex to make sure that doesn’t happen. We aren’t using Plan B as an alternative to another method of birth control (although I realize this can be an option should your chosen method of B.C. fail).

Ultimately, this is my opinion. I don’t expect everyone to agree with me, nor am I trying to make everyone agree with me.

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Plan B get’s OK for non-prescription sales

Posted by Trisha on August 24th, 2006

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/14497678/?GT1=8404

A travesty! Now women and men age 18 and older can get Plan B, the emergency contraceptive pill, without a prescription. I am rather dissappointed that the FDA reversed it’s own ruling to allow this, even with the age restriction.

I have an idea…why don’t we promote abstinence rather than giving teens more tools to become more promiscuous? Oh, because libs and feminists would have a fit, that’s why. It’s OK to put condom machines in high school bathrooms, but not ok to teach boys and girls to wait to have sex and that there are consequences for their actions.

We aren’t teaching our kids to be responsible for their actions. We’re teaching them that it’s ok to have unprotected sex because you can get an abortion, or take this pill and make it all go away. What kind of example are we setting for our kids? Not a very good one, in my opinion.

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Pluto has been demoted

Posted by Trisha on August 24th, 2006

I have not see this on the news anywhere, and only ran across it due to a SAHM friend posting it on our board. I am amazed that after all these years they would tell us what we thought was a planet is not a planet after all. I’m 26 and remember being taught about 9 planets, not 8. I don’t know how long pluto has been considered a planet, but it’s been at least 20 years (ok, I just found that Pluto was discovered in 1930!). I even remember the neat little ditty I was taught to remember the order: Mary’s Velvet Eyes Make John Stay Up Nights Period.

They have deemed Pluto a dwarf planet. Apparently they have decided to make a tertiary system for classifying planets and other objects. The rules they have set forth are fairly clear for qualifying as a planet: a celestial body that is in orbit around the sun, has sufficient mass for its self-gravity to overcome rigid body forces so that it assumes a … nearly round shape, and has cleared the neighbourhood around its orbit.

I guess this is ok, since many other dwarf planets will be discovered in the coming years. Their new classification system seems to be a good thing, so we’ll see how it all pans out.

I remember talk some years ago when I was in high school (8-12 yrs ago) about Neptune and Pluto switching places. However, upon further research, it appears that they only switched places due to Pluto’s oblong orbit overlapping with Neptune’s. I’m torn here. I mean, I grew up with Pluto being a planet, but now, after 20 yrs, I’m supposed to teach my kids that there are only 8 planets? I don’t think I can do that! It’s going to be so hard for me to get used to!

Well, here are some references to this, in case you haven’t heard about it, either:

http://www.chron.com/disp/story.mpl/space/4138557.html

http://news.zdnet.com/2100-9596_22-6109092.html

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/14409724/

http://cr4.globalspec.com/article.pl?sid=06/08/12/1232208

 

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